Sunday, 16 September 2012

Bringing up baby: update 14 September 2012


Tonight Atilla managed to complete parts of his jigsaw all by himself! It was astounding. He enjoyed it so much, we repeated the game three times.
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On 12/09/2012, at 11:07 PM, Solo-adventure wrote:
This morning was so amazing. Atilla woke up at a reasonable time, and was a very agreeable chap. He was playful throughout the entire Get Ready for Daycare routine. He was charming during our drive, and even said 'Bye bye Daddee' at the appropriate moment. He walked up the ramp to the entrance of Daycare. He was so lovely to be with I didn't want to leave him.
But I had to, to be able to keep him. I have to work.
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On 11/09/2012, at 2:10 AM, Solo-adventure wrote:
I adore how he talks to himself.
He says, "Yes? Yes!"
I'm glad he likes books. This makes car travel more bearable. He does quite well without distractions, but distractions are a good tool.
Our work day travel takes us past a billboard advertising a boat. This is one of the highlights of his day. I think. The prospect of the boat picture, and seeing Daddy, reconciles him to leaving the fun of daycare.
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Wednesday, 12 September 2012

Bringing up baby: new filing system

Atilla's filing system for food-in-progress.
(c) ^_^ 2012

Tuesday, 11 September 2012

Bringing up baby: Where Biscuit?

Atilla: Where biscuit?
(c) ^_^ 2012

Sunday, 9 September 2012

Bringing up baby: 9 September 2012


Atilla was great to be with today. I don't recall specifics. He was charming from the time he awoke. He looks much less like a baby now his front curls are gone. Sigh.

We all had breakfast out at Cafe Melba, and Atilla enjoyed his spiced fluffy very much. We frequented the Fairy Festival.

Then he slept. 

He awoke, had an outing with Aunty and Uncle - a good time was had by all. He was very good during the outing, and listened to Aunty's instructions. 

I think his great mood was a carryover from yesterday. We played the same games: Hide in the Hanging Laundry, Wii Resort, Pull Atilla on Trunkie, etc.

I still have this dreadful cough. 

Saturday, 8 September 2012

Bringing up baby: sweeper, and other things

Atilla is incredible. Tonight he decided he wanted to help clean up the kitchen before he had a bath. He did it Mummy's finicky way - amazing.

He got the adult-sized light weight microfibre-loop sweeper, and swept his self-designated area so cleaning. He got the adult-sized light weight plastic bristle broom, and swept the same area. And to top it all off, he got the dustpan and brush and swept up the remains!

I thanked him, Daddy thanked him, and Atilla went to his bath with nary a fuss. 
 
He is amazing. 

***
Earlier today (8 Sept 2012) we had a few errands at Sylvia Park. Most important was a haircut for Daddy and son.

By the time son got into the hairdressers' chair, he had lost patience with the whole outing. So we got a pair of hairdressing scissors for Mummy.

When we arrived home, Atilla was fast asleep upright in his car seat. 

The Grooming Fairy got into action, and snipped his front curls away. I miss his baby curls. The rest of his hair is straight. 

Wednesday, 5 September 2012

Thoughts on: Play and Pedagogy in Early Childhood 4

Play and Pedagogy in Early Childhood - Bending the Rules, by Sue Dockett & Marilyn Fleer (1999)

This book is due back next week, so I'm rushing through these jottings. 

Section 1. Theories of Play.
Section 2. A New Look at Play?
Section 3. Analysing Play.

Section 4. Play in Action.
 
The Child’s Whole Play Experience, Organising for Play, Play at School. 

My take-away: Children Play all day, even if adults do not recognise it as such. They play when they wake, at mealtime, wearing clothes, in the car, in the bath, etc.

I quite like Table 12.1 on page 229. In summary: Aborigine support as needed vs Japanese interdependence vs Western promote autonomy.

Organising for Play variations. Of the five different styles or programmes, these are 3 the ones which resonate with me. 

  • Work then Play – it’s the approach I learned, and still practice.
  • Project Approach – Play is used to support adult-selected learning outcomes. Children control the content of the play.
  • Reggio Emilia – in this peer-control style, children have the control of their long-term projects and the adults support these for as long as the interest holds, e.g. displaying the children’s work, extend beyond their everyday experiences, facilitating the ‘shared wisdom’ of the group. I wish I could do this, but it reads like a lot of work for the adults. 

With regards to Play at School, this excerpt (p 276) is a good simile as to how it is in New Zealand these days I reckon. 

We Can’t Do That 

Amy and Eliza are both aged 8. They say, ‘We don’t do skipping, ‘cause we don’t have stuff we can use. And there’s no place you can go to do that. There’s no skipping and no elastics. Sometimes we’re allowed to keep out the big rope after fitness, and people get in the middle and we play with it. But then someone says there’re note going to play or they’re not their friend, and we can’t play.’ 

Terry (aged 8) reports: ‘We can’t play football, ‘cause there’s no grass. And we can’t play on the asphalt ‘cause it’s hard and we might fall over. We can’t play marbles ‘cause there’s nowhere flat. [At my last school] we used to play it where there was just a little hole and little bit [of ground] where we could play marbles.’ 
(Dockett, 1997)

With regards to bullying at school:

Sam (aged 9):
This kid came and punched Brett up a bit, but said Brett had started it. But this other kid was heaps bigger than Brett, he was just huge! All night he [the other child] was punching himself so he had a big bruise and so he could say Brett punched him first.
(Dockett, 1997)

Friends are incredibly important. Friendship interactions helps the ability to read a social situation, and develop a representational theory of mind and the ability to consider the perspectives of others. 

“Having friends enables the practice and refinement of social skills such as group entry and negotiation.” (p282)

  • Dockett, S. 1997. Interviews on school play. Unpublished manuscript.

Monday, 3 September 2012

Thoughts on: Play and Pedagogy in Early Childhood 3

Play and Pedagogy in Early Childhood - Bending the Rules, by Sue Dockett & Marilyn Fleer (1999)

This book is due back next week, so I'm rushing through these jottings. 

Section 1. Theories of Play.
Section 2. A New Look at Play?
Section 3. Analysing Play.
Section 4. Play in Action.

My take-away:  This is the most interesting to me. It covers some of my concerns – Cultural Play, Power & Play, Technology & Play, Adults in Play, Individual Differences in Play.

Since having read this section, I have stopped worrying about Atilla’s playing. I am now more observant, supportive, encourage his style of play, and participate in his play more. 

I am more relaxed about including technology in his Play – Wii machine, iPad, television (dvd).

Power/Control in Play is a provoking thought. 

The Aborigine kids are supported to be autonomous in their eating, sleeping, and walks. They eat when and what they want to eat, they sleep when they choose to sleep, and walk as far as they want to walk.

In the Western world, there is the concept of Friend, nor Not Friend – an In Group and Out Group which can develop between 2-5yo. This freaks me out. What if my kid continues this discrimination? Worse, what if he is in the Out Group? 

Gender is another aspect. Girls tend to home-making play, because they identify with the Mum who has most power at Home. Boys tend not to identify with home-making play because often the girls delegate them to non-power roles. Boys tend towards violence and Super Hero Play, however they can be guided towards Support Role Play (e.g. Super Heros need to eat, have clothes, etc).

Therapy Play is not a new thing. However the interpretation of the Play requires lots of context.
Atilla enjoys putting Caillou to bed. Caillou gets covered with a blanket, and patted quite hard on the chest. When I first saw this (3 weeks ago) I interpreted this as Rough Play. Last night Atilla and I replicated putting Caillou to bed, but with Atilla as ‘Caillou’. Atilla indicated he likes being patted quite hard – Mummy was patting too gently for his liking. So now I know.

Adults in Play organise the Space, materials, time, and support to allow the Play to occur. I love this description so much.

The program on mapping emerged from the [4-5yo] children’s keen interest in China…

Having just finished a unit on Chinese New Year, the children had become very adept at pointing out China and Australia on a globe. Towards the end of the Chinese New Year unit, one of the children suggested that we should visit China. This began a discussion on how to get there, during which we referred to the globe to look at water and land. 

These were quite difficult concepts for the children to master. However, we finally determined that it would take too long to go to China in one day so it wasn’t really a feasible excursion. 

From ‘Hush! It’s Grandma Poss and Burra mapping out some possum magic’ (Fleer, 1997, p22). 

Individual Differences in Play – children play at their own pace, in their own way, at their own time. Not allowing them to do that means it’s not play. 

Atilla has a Play at the Brush Teeth routine. We’re in the bathroom. There’s some shampoo bottles and a brush for cleaning the shower glass with. He likes to re-arrange these. He takes them individually and puts it on the covered toilet seat. He takes them individually and places them outside the bathroom. He takes them individually and reaches high up to put it into the bathroom sink. (All while I’m brushing my teeth or flossing.) He takes them individually and puts them back in the approximate places he first found them. This Play developed over 2 weeks. He started with just putting the items outside the bathroom.

  • Fleer, M. 1997. Play interviews. Unpublished transcripts.